“My Eid Prayer” by Gia Chawla

This short,  thoughtful and courageous statement with some profound questions is written by a 17 years old girl. We grown ups are morally obligated to address the questions asked in this statement.

My Eid Prayer

I was so excited. It was Eid-Al- Adha today, the sun was shining, my beautiful family was together, I was going to see my friends, and pray. When I got to the mosque, I greeted any friends, then quickly went into the praying room for Salat. When the Imam commenced, I was suddenly in a trance. My eyes were closed, and my mind was somewhere else. I was mesmerized by his melodic, powerful voice. It was like he was singing a song to us; a song that when it ended, I was so disappointed and wanted it to start again.

I still had no idea how he looked like. What I was expecting was very different from what he actually looked like. When the Imam turned around, I saw a built young man, with a warm smile in a suit and tie. Now it was time for the Khutbah. Everyone was aware of how boring these usually are and was just eager to get up and leave. This was different. He spoke of stories and of things that young people like me can relate to. For example, he talked about the positives and negatives social networking sites, and tied it back to being close with your families. I was connected with him from start to finish. Nothing could break my concentration from his Khutbah: not the screaming babies in the background, not the ladies chatting, or fidgeting, absolutely nothing. By the time this was all over, I felt compelled to speak to this guy, to hear his point of view, his thoughts etc… But from this point on, I felt nothing but disappointed and let down.

I was the first one to approach the Imam and the last one to say something to him. Older men were coming in front of me as if I wasn’t there, as if what I had to say didn’t matter. I was being looked at by other men with confusion as they approached the imam, shook his hand and hugged him. “What does this little seventeen year old girl have to possibly to say?” But I decided to wait patiently. This Imam deserved to know that his message was speaking to people like me. Five minutes go by, ten minutes go by, ten men disregard me, thirteen men disregard me. I was embarrassed. As I turn my head with my eyes facing the ground, it is then the Imam finally said to one man “one second brother, this sister would like to say something.” With light tears in my eyes and a light, stuttered voice all I say is “I thought your voice was very beautiful and you did a wonderful job. Your message was mashallah wonderful.”

It is when incidents like this happen to me that I get angry because it becomes clear that justice is not being served. To this day I struggle with one question: Is lslam misogynistic or is it just the culture that is being influenced by the religion? Why was I looked at strangely by other men there? I don’t know. Why was I ignored? I don’t know. Why was it so difficult for me to congratulate a man in his mission? I don’t know. But the point is it shouldn’t be.

By Gia Chawla

Quran Forbids To Hunt Abuser of Prophet (6:108)

Blasphemy (Abusing the Prophet)
Maulana Wahiduddin Khan
 ( Shared by Azeem Farooki)
The Quran is the most authentic source of Islam. The Quran clearly states which actions are crimes and specifies what kind of punishments are to be meted out for them. 
 
One notable example is what is called ‘qazaf’. The following is the verse of the Quran in this regard: “Those who defame chaste women, but cannot produce four witnesses, shall be given eighty lashes.” (24:4)
 
We learn from this verse of the Quran that if a pious woman is defamed without any proof, such a person, in the eyes of the Quran, becomes a criminal who deserves physical punishment by a court of law. When the Quran mentions this crime, it also mentions the specific punishment along with it.
 
Now let us look into this matter from another aspect. The Quran states that since ancient times God has sent prophets in succession to every town and every community. It says, moreover, that the contemporaries of all of these prophets adopted the same negative attitude — but with far greater intensity — as has been mentioned in the Quran with regard to chaste women. For instance, the Quran says: “Alas for human beings! They ridicule every messenger that comes to them.” (36:30)
 
There are more than two hundred verses of this nature, which reveal that the contemporaries of the Prophet repeatedly perpetrated the same act which is now called ‘abuse of the Prophet’ or ‘using abusive language about the Prophet’. Prophets down the ages have been mocked and abused by their contemporaries (36:30), some of the epithets cited in the Quran being “a liar” (40:24), “possessed” (15:6), “a fabricator” (16:101), “a foolish man” (7:66). The Quran mentions these words of abuse used by prophets’ contemporaries but nowhere does the Quran prescribe the punishment of lashes, or death or any such deterrent punishment.
 
This clearly shows that ‘abuse of the Prophet’ is not a subject of punishment, but is rather a subject of dawah. That is, one who is guilty of abusing the Prophet should not have corporal punishment meted out to him: he should rather be given sound arguments in order that his mind may be addressed. In other words, peaceful persuasion should be used to reform the person concerned rather than attempting to kill him.
 
There is a verse in the Quran to this effect: “God knows all that is in their hearts; so ignore what they say, admonish them and speak to them in such terms as will address their minds.”(4:63)
 
This verse means that those who adopt a negative stance towards the Prophet will be judged by God, who knows the innermost recesses of their hearts. The responsibility of the Prophet and his followers is to observe the policy of avoidance, and, wishing well, convey the message of God to them in such a manner that their minds might be properly addressed.
 
This case is made out in the Chapter entitled Al-Ghashiya: “Do they never reflect on the camels and how they were created, and on the sky, how it is raised aloft, and on the mountains, how they are firmly set up, and on the earth, how it is spread out? So, exhort them; your task is only to exhort, you are not their keeper. But whoever turns back and denies the truth, will be punished by God with the greatest punishment. Certainly, it is to Us that they will return.” (88:17-26)
 
These verses of the Quran tell us about what approach the Prophet was required to adopt. This approach was that people should be addressed by arguments. Attempts should be made to satisfy them rationally as to the veracity of the religion. And notwithstanding any negative reaction on the part of those addressed, this same positive style of dawah (conveying the message of God to people) has to be adhered to. It is not the task of the dayee to assume the role of a keeperSo far as punishment and reward are concerned, that is a subject wholly in the domain of God. God will gather together everyone on the Day of Resurrection and then, according to their deeds, will reward or punish them.
 
Another important aspect of this matter is that at no point in the Quran is it stated that anyone who uses abusive language about the Prophet should be stopped from doing so, and in case he continues to do so he should be awarded severe punishment. On the contrary, the Quran commands the believer not to use abusive language directed against opponents: “But do not revile those [beings] whom they invoke instead of God, lest they, in their hostility, revile God and out of ignorance.” (6:108)
 
This verse of the Quran makes it plain that it is not the task of the believers to establish media watch offices and hunt for anyone involved in acts of defamation of the Prophet, and then plan for their killing, whatever the cost. On the contrary, the Quran enjoins believers to sedulously refrain from indulging in such acts as may provoke people to retaliate by abusing Islam and the Prophet. This injunction of the Quran makes it clear that this responsibility devolves upon the believers, rather than that others be held responsible and demands made for them to be punished.
 
Looked at from this angle, the stance of present-day Muslims goes totally against the teachings of the Quran. Whenever anyone — in their judgement — commits an act of ‘abuse of the Prophet’, in speech or in writing, they instantly get provoked and their response is to start leading processions through  the streets, which often turn violent, and then they demand that all those who insult the Prophet be beheaded.
 
All those who initiate such provocative processions and demand the killing of supposed ‘abusers of the Prophet’, are instead themselves the greatest culprits when it comes to abuse of the Prophet. Their violent conduct has resulted in the public being lead into believing that Islam is a religion of a pre-civilized era, that it imposes a ban on free thinking, that it is a religion which believes in thought crime, and that it is a religion of violence, etc.
 
It is Muslims themselves who are entirely responsible for the formation of this negative image of Islam. Distorting the image of Islam in this way is, indeed, the greatest of all crimes. 

Center for Peace and Spirituality – USA

The Mercy of Prophet Muhammad By Kamran Pasha(Filmmaker)

.A different perspective by a Hollywood Filmmaker:

“The catalyst for the current wave of violence by a handful of extremists in Libya and Egypt has been the release of a small independent film entitled “Innocence of Muslims.” I am of the opinion that it is a film of questionable artistic merit, backed by a group of bitter bigots whose only agenda was to incite hatred and violence by smearing the character of Prophet Muhammad. And yet as an artist and filmmaker myself, I absolutely support the right of these people to say what they want to say. In fact, I encourage them to keep making more such works, as they will actually be doing Islam a great service. I say to those who hate my faith: Make as many films and write as many books as you want insulting Islam and Prophet Muhammad. You will only bring more attention to Islam and make it stronger.”

Click on the link below to read the full article;

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kamran-pasha/the-mercy-of-prophet-muhammad_b_1879601.html