Is there something about Islam?

(A worth reading analysis by Kenan Malik, an author, BBC broadcaster, lecturer, NYT columnist and a proud atheist. F. Sheikh)

“Every year I give a lecture to a group of theology students – would-be Anglican priests, as it happens – on ‘Why I am an atheist’. Part of the talk is about values. And every year I get the same response: that without God, one can simply pick and choose about which values one accepts and which one doesn’t.

My response is to say: ‘Yes, that’s true. But it is true also of believers.’ I point out to my students that in the Bible, Leviticus sanctifies slavery. It tells us that adulterers ‘shall be put to death’. According to Exodus, ‘thou shalt not suffer a witch to live’. And so on. Few modern day Christians would accept norms. Others they would. In other words, they pick and choose.

So do Muslims. Jihadi literalists, so-called ‘bridge builders’ like Tariq Ramadan (‘bridge-builder’, I know, is a meaningless phrase, and there are many other phrases that one could, and should, use to describe Ramadan) and liberals like Irshad Manji all read the same Qur’an. And each reads it differently, finding in it different views about women’s rights, homosexuality, apostasy, free speech and so on. Each picks and chooses the values that they consider to be Islamic.

I’m making this point because it’s one not just for believers to think about, but for humanists and atheists too. There is a tendency for humanists and atheists to read religions, and Islam in particular, as literally as fundamentalists do; to ignore the fact that what believers do is interpret the same text a hundred different ways. Different religions clearly have different theologies, different beliefs, different values. Islam is different from Christianity is different from Buddhism. What is important, however, is not simply what a particular Holy Book, or sacred texts, say, but how people interpret those texts.

The relationship between religion, interpretation, identity and politics can be complex. We can see this if we look at Myanmar and Sri Lanka where Buddhists – whom many people, not least humanists and atheists, take to be symbols of peace and harmony – are organizing vicious pogroms against Muslims, pogroms led by monks who justify the violence using religious texts. Few would insist that there is something inherent in Buddhism that has led to the violence. Rather, most people would recognize that the anti-Muslim violence has its roots in the political struggles that have engulfed the two nations. The importance of Buddhism in the conflicts in Myanmar and Sri Lanka is not that the tenets of faith are responsible for the pogroms, but that those bent on confrontation have adopted the garb of religion as a means of gaining a constituency and justifying their actions. The ‘Buddhist fundamentalism’ of groups such as the 969 movement, or of monks such as Wirathu, who calls himself the ‘Burmese bin Laden’, says less about Buddhism than about the fractured and fraught politics of Myanmar and Sri Lanka.”

“And yet, few apply the same reasoning to conflicts involving Islam. When it comes to Islam, and to the barbaric actions of groups such as Isis or the Taliban, there is a widespread perception that the problem, unlike with Buddhism, lies in the faith itself. Religion does, of course, play a role in many confrontations involving Islam

The tenets of Islam are very different from those of Buddhism. Nevertheless, many conflicts involving Islam have, like the confrontations in Myanmar and Sri Lanka, complex social and political roots, as groups vying for political power have exploited religion and religious identities to exercise power, impose control and win support. The role of religion in these conflicts is often less in creating the tensions than in helping establish the chauvinist identities through which certain groups are demonized and one’s own actions justified. Or, to put it another way, the significance of religion lies less in a given set of values or beliefs than in the insistence that such values or beliefs – whatever they are – are mandated by God.

And it is in this context we need to think about whether there is ‘something about Islam’.There are a host of different views that Muslims hold on issues from apostasy to free speech, views that range from the liberal to the reactionary. The trouble is that policymakers and commentators, particularly in the West, often take the most reactionary views to be the most authentic stance, in a way they would rarely do with Buddhism or Judaism or Christianity.”

The whole article is worth reading and he concludes his article with following paragraph:

“So, yes there is something about Islam that needs challenging. But equally, there is something about secular liberalism, and the blindness and pusillanimity of many secular liberals, the bigotry of many critics of Islam, and the cynicism of many secular governments in their exploitation of radical Islam, that needs challenging too.”

Read full article by clicking:

http://kenanmalik.wordpress.com/2014/08/12/is-there-something-about-islam/#comment-14603

 

RAMADAN WITH NO DUSK OR DAWN

An article from Aljazeera.

Shared by Tahir Mahmood

Kiruna, Sweden – During this year’s holy month of Ramadan, when consumption of food and water is prohibited between dawn and dusk, how do Muslims observing the fast manage in the far north of Scandinavia, where the sun never sets?

An estimated 700 Muslims are spending Ramadan in the mining town of Kiruna, located 145km north of the Arctic Circle and surrounded by snowcapped mountains throughout the summer. Many of them are recent asylum seekers, sent to Kiruna while their claims are processed.

The sun stays up around the clock from May 28-July 16, which constitutes half of the fasting period this year.

“I started Ramadan by having suhoor with the sun shining in my eyes at 3:30 in the morning,” said Ghassan Alankar from Syria, referring to the meal just before dawn.

“I put double curtains in my room and still, there’s light when I’m going to sleep.”

Since there is no central authority in Sunni Islam that could issue a definite religious ruling, or fatwa, Muslims in the north are using at least four different timetables to break the fast.

Alankar sticks to Mecca time, Saudi Arabia, “because it’s the birthplace of Islam”. But he is worried about whether his fast will be accepted by God.

“I’m not sure I’m doing the right thing,” said Alankar, who arrived in Kiruna seven months ago after a hazardous journey via Lebanon, Turkey, and Greece. “Only when I’m in God’s house, if I make it to heaven, I will know.”

No dusk, no dawn

The start of Ramadan is determined by the sighting of the new moon, which  moves about 11 days back in the Gregorian calendar each year. About every 33 years, Ramadan falls at the same time.

A majority of those who fast in Kiruna follow the timings of the capital Stockholm, 1,240km further south, after being advised by the European Council of Fatwa and Research (ECFR), a Dublin-based private foundation composed of Islamic clerics.

Zero, 15, 25 or 45 hours, it doesn’t matter as long as you believe in what you’re doing.

– Hussein Halawa, European Council of Fatwa and Research

“In Stockholm, there’s day and night,” Hussein Halawa, secretary-general of the council, told Al Jazeera, explaining the decision. He was personally invited to northern Sweden from Dublin this year to experience the lengthy daylight and give advice.

http://www.aljazeera.com/indepth/features/2014/07/ramadan-sweden-with-no-dusk-no-dawn-20147614423642407.html

FATHER: A Mentor of Spirituality

                                     

                                            FATHER: A Mentor of Spirituality

                     “It is a wise father that knows his own child.” — Shakespeare

                                                O my father and my best friend.

                                           An understanding spirit and loyal soul,

                                         A heart of tenderness, a mind all wisdom,

                                           Knowing how justice and love to blend.

                                            A teacher, loving, patient, and kind,

                                               A rock of strength to lean upon,

                                                   In time of joy and in stress.

                                             You’re my father, you’re my friend!

                                                           (Anonymous)

 

When a father teaches his son, it sounds like being in the past. When a son teaches his father we have to believe that we are in the modern age. But spiritual mentoring has no past, present or future. It is timeless and is always as modern as it is old. Spiritual influence of fathers on their children—a silent but very important effect—has remained unexplained. Maybe the spirituality of mother, which naturally speaks through her unconditional love, is over-shadowing the tacit spiritual value of fatherhood. Whereas mothers continue to perform the majority of primary care-giving tasks, such as feeding, bathing, and comforting the children, fathers, on the other hand, tend to take part in supplementary activities. Fathers’ role matters less to their children’s survival but appears great in assisting their cognitive and spiritual development. As a result the quality of father’s involvement appears to matter more for children than the quantity. Father’s engagement in child-centered activities, such as helping with homework, playing together, or attending sports events and attending school plays, are a critical factor in spiritually getting connected with his children. The key is paying attention to what children are interested in and following their lead. Moreover this kind of involvement promotes cognitive development by stretching the children’s current level ability, building on what they know right now and expanding it. Such engagements help children develop not only logical reasoning but also spiritual bonding and problem-solving skills that translate into various situations in their life.

 

The infant needs mother’s unconditional love and care physiologically. The child after six, begins to need father’s love, his authority and guidance. Mother has the function of making him secure in life, father has the function of teaching him, guiding him to cope with those problems, with which the particular society the child has been born into, confronts him. Father’s spirituality is reflected through his love which is not unconditional like mother’s love. His love and spirituality is guided by principles and expectations; it is to be patient, tolerant, and disciplined. Fatherly conscience says: “You did wrong, you cannot avoid accepting certain consequences of your wrong doing, and most of all you must change your ways if I am to love or just like you.” It gives the growing child an increasing sense of competence and eventually permits the child to become his or her own authority. The mature offspring come to the point where they are their own fathers. In this endeavor, it is the unexpressed spirituality of a father to perform a role in nurturing his children as perfect and complete whole persons. Abrahamic religions profess that God chooses ordinary men for fatherhood to accomplish His extraordinary plan. Prophet Ibrahim is one of those men whom God had chosen as His prophet so that he will direct his children and his household after him to keep the way of the God by doing what is right and just. Here is a purposeful obligation from God to every father, the purpose Prophet Muhammad (pbh) further carried on to teach the fathers of his ummah by presenting his own actions and conveying it through his “Ahadith.”

 

Motherly love which is the essence of her spirituality, by its very nature is unconditional. She is the home from where her children come from; she is nature, soil, the ocean. Father does not represent any such natural home. He represents the other pole of human existence; the world of thought, of man-made things, of law and order, of discipline, of travel and adventure. Father is the one who teaches the child, who shows him the road into the world. Father’s spirituality and love is tied with conditions. Its principle is “I love you because you fulfill my expectations, because you do your duty, because you are like me.” In conditional fatherly love, as with unconditional motherly love, we find both a negative and a positive aspect. The negative aspect is the very fact that fatherly love has to be deserved, that it can be lost if one does not do what is expected. In the nature of fatherly love lies the fact that obedience becomes the main virtue, that disobedience is the main sin—and its punishment the withdrawal of fatherly love. Father’s spirituality represents what God’s love is for the humans. God rewards obedience, and punishes disobedience. Its positive side is, since father’s love is conditioned, a child has to do something to acquire it; he or she has to work for it. Thus we can say fatherly spirituality is not naturally transmitted to the children, rather by seeking guidance of their father, they have to earn or derive it. They have to prove that they qualify for their father’s love and spiritual connection.

 

Fatherhood is about helping children become happy and healthy adults, at ease in the world, and be prepared to become fathers or mothers in the future. We often say that doing what is best for our kids is the most important thing we do. Before the industrial revolution, fathers often worked side by side with their sons and instructed their children in spiritual values. When industrialization took over fathers left their farms and headed to the factories. Fourteen-to-sixteen hour workdays set the stage for the absentee father. Eventually, fathers came to be regarded as merely breadwinners who fulfilled their paternal duties by providing food, shelter and paying for their children’s school and college expenses. Whereas in the past the industrialization took over father’s spiritual connection with his children, today the “I-Net” is chipping away their need of fatherly guidance, distracting them away from the spiritual and loving bond of fatherhood. The internet mind is depriving the new generation of an important evolutionary factor of human beings “the brain maturation and spiritual connection.” Today’s mind is poised to exploit an essentially unlimited external memory. The borderless virtual space of Internet seems to help shrink the world and links together hundreds of millions of human beings together. But this face-to-face and mind-to-mind connections does not connect humans heart-to-heart. It does not connect a child with his father not only spiritually but also cognitively. Therefore, today, helper parent’s role is especially important for promoting children’s spiritual and intellectual growth.

 

Parental care and acceptance influences important aspects of personality. Children who are accepted by their parents with love and spiritual connections, helps them to be independent and emotionally stable, have strong self-esteem, and hold a positive worldview. Those who are neglected, feel they were rejected and thus show the opposite—hostility, feelings of inadequacy, instability and negative worldview. A father’s love and acceptance in this regard, is as important as a mother’s love and acceptance. In fact, in the development of the children and solving their problems, a father is more implicated than a mother. Empathy, that is sharing parent’s feelings with their children, to be in tune with them, and help them feel as humans who have a soul and a consciousness, is an important characteristic that our teenagers need to develop; and fathers seem to have a surprisingly important role here, too. It has been seen that children who have fond memories of their fathers are more able to handle the day-to-day stresses of adulthood. William Wordsworth who has famously said, “A child is the father of the man,” has also said “Heaven lies about us in our infancy!” It all depends upon a Father, “A Mentor of Spirituality” to help his children keep on embracing that heaven which lies about them in their infancy.

 

 MIRZA ASHRAF

06/14/2014