Zafar Khizer’s lecture on Buddhism

Buddha and His Teachings

 

This is the story of the only man in the world who left his kingdom to search for truth and wisdom and then spent rest of his life to teach people how to reduce or eliminate pain and suffering and died with a complete satisfaction and peace.

Siddhartha Gautama who is famous in the world by the name of Buddha was born in 563 B.C. in the part of India that is modern day Nepal. He died at the age of 80 in 483 B.C.

Even though people of every religion consider their founder of the religion or prophet the greatest man on earth but what respect and praise Buddha and his teachings receive from people of all religions and especially in the developed world, is unmatched.

We will first discuss conditions in India before and at the time of birth of Buddha and then about his life and teachings.

India had already been the center of one great civilization along the Indus Valley that came to an end around 1700 B.C. when it was invaded by mighty warriors who came originally from Europe and then settled in Iranian area. They called themselves Aryans which meant noble. By 1000 B.C., they became at home in India and wrote their religious books called Vedas in their language Sanskrit.

In his book Buddha Life and Thoughts that was first published in 1942, before creation of Pakistan, Dr. Muhammad Hafeez Sayed writes:

Invading Aryans were like a never ending storm for India that altered its loving and peaceful civilization and cultivated seeds of violence and cruelty. Through their poetry of revenge and wars, they made a culture of killing people on the basis of politics and religion an integral part of this society. They made attitudes of revenge and putting people down and fascist ideas of white and black, tall and short, local and non-local, and martial race part of our blood. Hinduism grew in this land under the influence of these views and leaders of Hinduism never forgot superiority of Aryans. You can see Aryans superiority in Hindu religion and all religions influenced by Hinduism in one form or anther. Even you can see the same Aryan superiority in Muslims of India throughout the history.

Here I would like to mention that perhaps it was the same Aryan superiority complex that encouraged Muslims of India to name their new country Pakistan, i.e., the place of pure people.

 Dr. Hafeez Sayed writes later:

Brahmans wrote their religions books Vedas in a language that was foreign to local population. They treated local mother languages as languages of animals and then made Sanskrit the language of education and law. This is the same linguistic tradition you later find in Indian Muslims who made Arabic and Farsi the languages of education and law and treated local languages less respectable and incomplete. It was beginning of Brahmanism that was founded in our motherland on cruelty and favoritism. The time from 1000 B.C to 500 B.C was a time of fighting and unrest.

In his lecture on Buddha, Professor Rufus Fears writes that at the time of birth of Buddha, India was divided into a number if smaller kingdoms and republics. It was an age of wealthy merchants who grew up in the prosperity of India with no thoughts other than just making money, a greedy society not unlike our own.

Other sources also say that it was a time of turmoil. A few people were very rich but most of them were very poor. Brahmans involved people in too many rituals through which they extracted money from people. Every occasion such as birth, death and wedding, required rituals by Brahmans and payments of money.

Siddhartha Gautama’s father was a king and he was his heir. It is said that his mother was having difficulty in conceiving a baby. One day she saw in her dream that a white elephant enters her body and she became pregnant. Buddha was born without any pain to his mother and started talking and walking right after his birth. His mother died shortly after and he was raised by his aunt (sister of his mother) who his father married after the death of his mother.

It was professed that either Buddha will become a great king or a holy man. Obviously, his father wanted him to become a great king so he raised him inside the palace and did not let him go outside to the world. He was raised to become a king. Everything was available including good food, music and beautiful women to the Prince. He also got married. But he was getting more and more interested in seeing the outside world.

His father finally allowed him to go to see the outside world but did not want him to see bad things. But Buddha soon sees a very weak and old man and asked his charioteer what is that? The charioteer said that is an old man. Buddha asked why he is like that way. His charioteer replies that we all get that way. Everybody turns into an old man or woman like that. He then sees a person who was terribly deformed with a disease. He then sees a dead body and finds out that everyone will have to die one day. Now Buddha realizes that his own life inside the palace is actually an artificial life and not a real life.

Another time, he sees a man running around in the nude. At that time, people started asking what is the meaning of life. It was not something that was simply given to you by God. It is something you must search for. In Buddha’s time, there were numerous wandering wise men. The word for them was beggars. They had left behind all of their worldly goods. They took whatever was offered to them to eat. Many of them went through the most terrible mortification of the body, but all of them were searching for what is the meaning of life and all of them were seeking in their own way to escape from the wheel of life.

They believed deeply in the idea of Karma—every act large or small, you take has consequences. You will be held responsible for it. If you do evil deeds, you will be re-born as an animal or insect. If you do good things, you may come back as a soul so devoted to learning that you will become a wandering wise man, a beggar, and may be ultimately find the truth that will liberate your soul and free you forever.

When Buddha saw that wise man, he thought that you can have a life of contentment in this world that is full of sufferings. He decided to search for truth by becoming a holy man. One night when everyone was sleeping, he went up and looked his wife and little boy one more time and then left and joined those who were wandering in the search of wisdom. He was 29 at that time.

He followed that search for several years. Initially he also thought that the only way to find wisdom was to subject his body to the most severe discipline; that was the standard way of a wandering holy man. So he went without food for days or ate very little—until he became so thin that his ribs almost stuck to his backbone. One day people thought he was dead. When a girl said he was dead, he gave a little bit of sign of life and she took pity on him and forced him to accept some milk and rice pudding, and his life was saved.

At that time, it came to Buddha that mortifying your body was just as bad as overindulging it. The first wisdom that came to him was that of moderation, a middle way and choosing what is appropriate for you.

He then decided that he would sit under a tree until he achieved wisdom. It came to him after six years of thoughts and wandering, what he called the four noble truths. The first of these is life is suffering. Even if we are happy now, we will be unhappy when things will end that are keeping us happy now. The second truth was that our desires make us suffer. Our desires lead us into an action that may be harmful to us or others. The third truth is that we can reduce or eliminate our suffering by eliminating our desires or stop wanting things. How do you stop wanting things? That was the fourth noble truth. You can eliminate your desires by following Buddha eightfold pathway.

First you need right view followed by right intent. (That is for achieving wisdom.) You need right speech, right action, and right means of earning a living. (These are for your ethical conduct.) You need right effort, right mindfulness and right concentration. (These are for mental development.)

Teachings of Buddha focus on living a practical life and not on destination. He taught people not to lie, steal, get angry, jealous, envy, deceive, talk behind people backs, bad talks, self praise, etc. In his religion, you cannot harm any living creators intentionally or unintentionally. He forbids you to have certain livelihood such as butcher, making weapons of war and producing and selling of alcoholic beverages and poison. You cannot buy or sell slaves either. He taught parents to raise their children to become honest and taught children to respect their parents and perform household chores. He taught students to respect their teachers and teachers to teach them with love and patience. He taught husband and wife their rights and duties, how to treat a friend, and also how an employer should treat his servants. He asked employers to use their servants no more than their strengths and abilities and pay them reasonably and give them vacation some time.

Buddha was very against Brahmanism rituals and dividing people in sects. He accepted everyone as his student regardless of their sect.

For monks, he has tougher rules. They cannot have worldly possession except a few things such as clothing, begging bowl, and razor. They can only eat what people give them. They cannot accept gold or silver and cannot use money. His teachers are supposed to spend most of their free time in meditation. For example, in Love Meditation, they are supposed to concentrate how to eliminate pain and suffering from the world. They are supposed to fill their hearts with love of all creatures and care about happiness of everyone in the world.

Buddha did not deny existence of Gods. But he thought they were also subject to life, death and rebirth like other creatures and had no effect or influence in this world. He did not believe in a soul but believed in rebirth.

His famous and important teaching was that there are three things that are roots of all evil deeds in the world: Greed, Hate and Delusion. These three things are like poison for people and like fire in which all people are burning. And you need to do some efforts to get rid of them.

This teaching of Buddha is still as credible today as it was 2500 years ago. Can we think of any evil deed that is not a result of any of these three things? These were behind all major wars in which millions of people died. When Hitler started World War II by declaring German race a superior race, it was his delusion. When the Church fought Crusades or each other for over one hundred years, it was their delusion. Similarly, when a Muslim kills another Muslim because he is not a good Muslim or kills someone because of his believes, that is his delusion.

To eliminate delusion, Buddha told people. Don’t believe just because you hear something, or it is a tradition, sounds reasonable, written in Scriptures, or your teacher told you. You need to evaluate everything yourself before you accept it.

Buddha thought that one big reason for suffering and delusion is ignorance. That is why a man needs to learn and search for wisdom throughout his life. There is a story of a young woman whose son died. She was crying and going to everyone to do something for his son. People told her that your son is already dead and we cannot do anything about it. Someone suggested her to go to Buddha and he might do something. . Buddha said to her that he would help her but first she needs to bring some mustard seeds. But she needs to bring those mustard seeds from a home where no one has died. The woman goes from home to home but does not find a home where no one died. She then realizes that death is a reality that every person and every home has to face. She buried her son and become a student of Buddha.

Buddha last teachings to his students are simply a work of a brilliant and man of great vision. He said: Everything is transitory. All things good or bad will end one day. Buddhism will also end one day. So [do not follow me] workout your salvation with diligence.

Professor Fears says about Buddha that for 45 years he preached and taught, converting thousands of thousands to his way and died at the age of 80 as he had lived those 45 years in the complete peace of knowing the meaning of his life. He had come for a purpose and he had taught that purpose, but above all he had achieved complete peace with himself. His message of peach and nonviolence spread [without any wars] to Asia, Japan, China, Korea, Burma and Thailand and fundamentally transformed these nations and their cultures.

In the days of my childhood, there was a beggar who used to come every Thursday and stops at every house and would say loud: “Peace for all and blessings for all. Peace for him who gives and peace for him who does not give.” That was the message of Buddha without claiming of any special status or divine authority and a secret available to anyone to live a life of peace and contentment.

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References:

  • Buddha Life and Thoughts by Dr. Muhammad Hafeez Sayed [First published in 1942 in Urdu]
  • The World was Never the Same: Events that Changed History by Professor J. Rufus Fears, Ph.D. (Produced by The Great Courses company)
  • Great Minds of the Eastern Intellectual Tradition by Professor Grant Hardy, Ph.D. (Produced by The Great Courses company)

Muslims, Buddhists, and Worship of Oneself

(At the end, I want to say something about what is happening in Burma today.)

About 820 years ago, in 1193, a Muslim invader Bakhtiyar Khilji burnt the first and largest University of Malanda that had 9 million unique books. He also killed thousands of innocent and harmless monks. Similarly, the first Muslim King of India Qutb ud din and his generals destroyed shrines of Buddhism and killed monks in different places and played a vital role in almost eliminating Buddhism from India, its birthplace.

Today, Buddhists in Burma with the support of government and monks are killing thousands of innocent and poor Muslim minority, including women and children even though their religion forbids to even kill an insect.

It does not matter if people call themselves a Muslim or Buddhist, or Christian, Hindu, Jew or an atheist. It seems, in reality a man only worships himself and is a slave of his own self or nature.

 

LIFE ALWAYS SUSTAINS ITSELF

 

 

LIFE ALWAYS SUSTAINS ITSELF

 

My name is Bennie and i am a 30 year young man living in a very beautiful African country called Zambia.  English is not my first language so kindly bear with my writing.

One day when i was 17 years old, I committed suicide.  It was immediately after i had an argument with my father which i used as an excuse for my reaction while deep inside i knew that the main reason was because i saw the world as the most unfair and unreasonable place. i hated the fact that i was young and saw any grownup as having too much power over me. I saw grownups oppressing other grownups. I saw a world where everyone was just so un-happy and everyone was complaining over something. Then when someone died, there was always a phrase, MAY THEY REST IN PEACE.  I saw death as the only way for man to be happy on earth.

Being in a coma for hours felt like seconds. i saw nothing during my coma but just darkness. 3hours was just a blink of an eye and i was alive again. i was so annoyed. Why did i live? was the question that kept coming back to me. I saw my suicide failure as just another level of unfairness that this life possess. How can me who is ready to die be alive and there is someone out there wishing to live who has died.

There was always this pain and anger that i felt, because deep inside was a voice telling me that death was not ready for me.

After months of whys and cries, i came to a final conclusion, to wait on life and see why i survived, i wanted to see if there was any major thing that life wanted to show me that will make me, someday fear death and be so much in love with life such that i would love to live forever. This decision for me meant that i have to live life to the fullest hoping one day i will find myself  in a life style that would fill my heart with total joy and happiness. The kind of life that makes man want to live forever.

The first path was religion, growing up in a Christian home and Christian dominated country. Christianity was on my door step. I listened to every preacher i could find. They all promised total happiness if you just repeated a short prayer after them about receiving and believing that Jesus was the son of God and savior of my soul.

I think i might have said a million of those prayers but was still feeling like ending my life the next second. Watching people giving testimonies about how their lives changed upon saying that same prayer made me think that maybe there was something wrong i was doing. I stopped listening to any other music but Christian music, started going to church and changed all my friends.

I had a smile but it was fake. The more i got into church staff the more alone i felt. I started realizing that most people where at church by default. For some it was just trendy, others because their parents expected them to be there, while some just followed their spouses and for the majority it was either they were looking for marriages or just some assurance that when they died, at least there will be some people at their funeral.

Since i didn’t find happiness there, i tried drugs, women, alcohol even tried finding happiness in college, same situation. Tried finding a good job, love, marriage even kids. I always wanted to have 2 kids. First a boy and second, a girl and it came to pass, But still no lasting happiness except for a few minutes after holding my son and daughter in my hands for the first time.

28 years old, Head of ICT systems in a big government organization, own house, 2 cars, 2 Kids, beautiful wife, personal business picking up and still haven’t found the true happiness of life. At this point i started thinking that there was no such a thing as internal happiness. I started thinking that maybe life was all about external happiness. It is all about what you have and not what you feel.

Then one day i heard a small voice inside me saying that i should start fasting and prayer, and i will find true happiness. What I have to lose, i thought.  Since i had tried religion before, i won’t put so much trust in this little voice.  I would always break my fast with a beer. After a couple of weeks, I heard a little voice again, and this time it told me that i can ask for anything during my break prayer.  I thought, i had always wanted to fly out of Zambia, and visit another country like South Africa. This is kind of funny i thought to myself, this is like having your own gene. I gave it a try and started waiting. Some weeks passed and nothing came up. I kept on fasting and praying at least once per week.  I started noticing some changes in me. I slowly started controlling my temper, and as weeks passed, people around me started telling me how cheerful i was and comforting it was to be around me.

I had being fasting and praying one day per week for about 6 months and no one knew about it. The little voice inside kept getting louder. One day while fasting, the little voice told me to ask for Knowledge and wisdom and give thanks for my previous request because it was answered and i did. 2 weeks letter, i was informed by my boss that my name came up for those the company wanted to send for training in South Africa. I was so excited, i couldn’t believe it come true. A month letter, i was in South Africa. I looked around and all i saw was the same ground, same trees and same people. I came to realize that the entire earth was the same. If you have seen water, it is the same everywhere, Trees are the same everywhere, the only thing that differs from place to place is but man made staff (taller buildings, wider roads).

I came to realize that nothing inside you even recognizes that you are in another country or continent, you just have to force achievement happiness by reminding yourself every morning that you are in South Africa. This was the first time i ever thought like this. Visiting new places always exited me, but now that i have visited the one place i wanted the most, i felt no excitement at all.

One more time the little voice came back and said, “Now you have all you want and ever wanted. Whatever you need is already with you even before you ask. All you need to do from now on is just to say thank you as your fasting prayer.”

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Now 30 years old and my heart over flows with happiness and joy. My mind has expanded to levels i never knew existed and still expanding. It has being a year now since i discovered the reason why i survived. And the reason is simple, LIFE ALWAYS SUSTAINS ITSELF.  I survived so that life can be sustained by the knowledge that is in me.

Since this is a thinker’s blog, i thought best to share my story first here and hopefully excite more thinking on these plains

1) Every human being who has ever lived on earth is but a human being. If he was born then he was human. Yes that includes Jesus, Muhammad, Buddha and any other person that man has God-fyd. I have studied the 3 major world religions and never being any instance where the people whose lives these religions are based on claimed to be better than anyone else on earth. Jesus said, “i am the son of God just like you are the son of God and more things than these you can do if you just believe in my massage (not just him). The massage was that you are all children of God so, stop fighting and love each other.

Buddha, also talked about love for each other and not for material things. He said himself that i sat and discovered the things that makes man suffer.

Muhammad’s massage was close to Jesus’ but he still had attachments to the temporal  earthly things, so people turned his personal conquest to Godly commands.

What i am saying is that, it is coded in all of us to do greater things than the previous generations.  Any message that has ever survived through history is there to encourage us to do better or do more and not to limit us. We should all see ourselves as Jesus, Moses, Buddha or any messenger of the Gods and sit down to check inside of us the message which we brought to deliver to the masses. Jesus was willing to die for his personal message and not fight for it. What is your personal message that you can stand and die for without a fight?

2) Everyone lives for someone, either knowingly or unknowingly. We all know about role models. Everyone living now is shaping their lives in line with someone they admire, either dead or alive. For some, its parents, some its teachers, others it’s a neighbor and for some its some guy they saw on TV. Look at your current life and think deeply, you will find that you saw someone in that same life and chose to make it your own. Even someone begging in the street is inspiring someone to live like them. Someone who saw a beggar in the street at one time, if they encounter any difficulties in  life, they may choose begging not because it’s the only way but because they have seen someone doing it. Look at your life and see yourself as a role model for the entire next generation because what you are doing now, you are showing someone knowingly or unknowingly as the right way to live on earth and they will come and live their lives exactly the way you lived yours.

A third quarter of people on earth live their lives by default and not as a personal tested way of life. Most Christians are Christians because they were born in a Christian home, same with Muslims and other religions. Most people are ready to defend and fight for their religious following not because they are personally convinced and believer of the doctrine but just because their parents told them that it was a true religion.   A Muslim will tell his child that Islam is the only true religion and the Quran is the only true holy book anything else is false and from the evil one. A Christian parent will also say the same thing about Christianity and the Bible. Then 5 generations down the line, you have 2 thousand people from these 2 religions groups fighting to death calling each the evil one, without ever trying to understand what the other one believes in. In the actual fact these are the most closely related religions.

3) Man showed man a way of life and he turned it into religion. Anyone who has studied any religious book open minded, will realize that the base message in any religion is of a personal nature. Something any person can choose to live or not. But as time passes, original messages are turned into traditions. Any tradition to survive, it has to have an organized structure with some people on top. This discriminatory system in organized religion hides under the fake cover of Order. So the more members that any tradition has, the more powerful the top people in that tradition become. In order to keep the increasing number of believers in check, some additions needs to be done to the original message. If people can believe that the original message came from God, then they can also believe any extra message for as long as both messages are put in the same book, no matter how contradicting the messages maybe. RELIGION IS MODERN DAY SLAVERY THAT RIDES ON THE MESSAGE OF FREEDOM.

4) Anyone who claims the world is unfair then he just wants what belongs to a friend. This world is fair for as long as you are happy with what you have.  I always give this example on this matter, imagine you are in a queue at the hospital for hours, then this guy comes up and since he is a friend of the nurse, he jumps queues and gets treated. You get annoyed and complain all you can. Finally you get to be attended hours letter. After living the clinic, you rush to the bank hoping to find it open. You reach the bank and there is a long queue with people waiting for hours. You hear someone calling you and it’s the cashier, your old friend wanting to assist you jump queue. Can you refuse the offer because it will be unfair on others or can you take it? The fact of life is that life always balances up favors.

Some people are complaining why there parents died early (because the friend’s parents are alive) and others why their parents are not dying already. Some want to lose their lives, others what to regain their lives. Whatever is on your friend that you are wishing was yours, there is something on you that your friend wants to have.

5) Whatever happens then it was supposed to happen. If it was not meant to happen then how can it happen?

6) What is yours is yours and what is not yours is not yours but everything under the sun is yours if you want it

7) Time does not exist only targets.

More i wish to share and more i shall share…

 

Bennie Chibwe

 

‘ God’s Bankers’ by Gerald Posner

Book review by Damon Linker

“Popes of this period — Pius IX, Leo XIII, Pius X, Benedict XV, Pius XI — publicly denounced lending money at interest (usury) while at the same time accepting massive loans from the Rothschilds and making their own interest-bearing loans to Italian Catholics. Beginning with ­Bernardino Nogara, appointed by Pius XI in 1929, the church also empowered a series of often shady financial advisers to engage in financial wheeling and dealing around the globe. “So long as the balance sheets showed surpluses,” Posner writes, “Pius and his chief advisers were pleased.” That pattern would continue through the rest of the 20th century.”

Ask a devout, theologically literate ­Roman Catholic to describe the institution of the church, and you’re likely to be told that it was founded by Jesus Christ at the moment he gave his disciple ­Peter the “keys to the kingdom of heaven” and vowed that “whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven.” This made ­Peter the head of the universal church, ­empowered to administer the sacraments, spread the Gospel, save souls and forgive sins until Christ’s return, as well as to pronounce with infallible authority on ­matters of Christian faith and morals. Christ also promised Peter that “the gates of hell shall not prevail” against the church — meaning that no matter how corrupt the institution might appear at any given moment of history, it will never be so consumed by evil that it ceases to be capable of fulfilling its God-appointed tasks.

Ask an informed historian or journalist about the history of the church — especially the Vatican and the papacy — and you are likely to hear a different story. On this telling, the church from the beginning has been an all-too-human institution that ­often follows a logic of self-interest, placing the good of its members ahead of those outside it, and the good of those in positions of ecclesiastical power ahead of the good of everyone else. To a greater or lesser extent, this has been true of most institutions throughout history, though it has been a particular problem in the 2,000-year history of the church, with its lack of democratic accountability and deep roots in the corruption-prone political culture of the Italian peninsula. The result has been a tension — and sometimes a blatant contradiction — between the church’s exalted claims for itself and its behavior. Click link below for full article;

http://www.nytimes.com/2015/03/22/books/review/gods-bankers-by-gerald-posner.html?action=click&pgtype=Homepage&module=c-column-middle-span-region&region=c-column-middle-span-region&WT.nav=c-column-middle-span-region

 posted by f.sheikh

 

‘Practicing Islam In Short Shorts’ By Thanaa El-Naggar

Practicing Islam in Short Shorts

The scenario I’m about to describe has happened to me more times than I can count, in more cities than I can remember, mostly in Western cities here in the U.S. and Europe.

I walk into a store. There’s a woman shopping in the store that I can clearly identify as Muslim. In some scenarios she’s standing behind the cash register tallying up totals and returning change to customers. She’s wearing a headscarf. It’s tightly fastened under her face where her head meets her neck. Arms covered to the wrists. Ankles modestly hidden behind loose fitting pants or a long, flowy dress. She’s Muslim. I know it. Everyone around her knows it. I stare at her briefly and think to myself, “She can’t tell if I’m staring at her because I think she is a spectacle or because I recognize something we share.”

I realize this must make her uncomfortable, so I look away. I want to say something, something that indicates I’m not staring because I’m not familiar with how she chooses to cover herself. Something that indicates that my mother dresses like her. That I grew up in an Arab state touching the Persian Gulf where the majority dresses like her. That I also face East and recite Quran when I pray.

“Should I greet her with A’salamu alaikum?” I ask myself. Then I look at what I picked out to wear on this day. A pair of distressed denim short shorts, a button-down Oxford shirt, and sandals. My hair is a big, curly entity on top of my head; still air-drying after my morning shower. Then I remember my two nose rings, one hugging my right nostril, the other snugly hanging around my septum. The rings have become a part of my face. I don’t notice them until I have to blow my nose or until I meet someone not accustomed to face piercings.

I decide not to say anything to her. I pretend that we have nothing in common and that I don’t understand her native tongue or the language in which she prays. The reason I don’t connect with her is that I’m not prepared for a possibly judgmental glance up and down my body. I don’t want to read her mind as she hesitantly responds, “Wa’alaikum a’salam.” Click link below for full article.

http://truestories.gawker.com/practicing-islam-in-short-shorts-1683991294/+emmacar

 posted by f.sheikh